Thursday, January 7, 2010

The ex-pat's lament.

It's almost midnight on a Wednesday, and I leave the US tomorrow. Again.

I'm filled with doubt -- what did I forget, what didn't I buy, look at how much money I spent, will the plane crash, can I manage all my bags, when will I be home. Worse, I'm haunted by the feeling that I am running away from something -- the boxes of my past life that fill one side of my old room mock me. Do I fear settling down this much? Or is this anxiety only because the money's getting lower and I dread the onslaught of real life?

Bags packed.

3 comments:

  1. It was wonderful to see you and we had some great times!
    I am sure that you did quite enough while you were home. Everybody feels like they are running away from something - most are. Some for good reasons some not. But, you will always have to leave your past behind you. You can't exactly run from it. You past is a part of you, but where you are now and where you are heading are more important.
    Don't worry about the boxed up former life - those boxes just contain things. Your experiences are with you.
    As for real life, that I understand. It is going to be rough and you won't always like where you are. However, your "real" life can be whatever - the stereotype doesn't have to hold.

    Miss you already!

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  2. I remember the night before the last time I left Denver... I wasn't filled so much with doubt as wine...oh ya! You were there!

    Oh, the anticipation that always accompanies the long voyage. I guess we know it just a little too well, but that's part of the fun isn't it?

    Miss you, girl! Keep living the life!

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